The 2-2-5-5 custody schedule

Fixed weekdays for each parent plus alternating long weekends. A gentle step up from 2-2-3.

50/50

time split (50% / 50%)

7 / 7

overnights per 14 nights

exchanges per 14 nights

2-2-5-5 on a two-week calendar

	Mon	Tue	Wed	Thu	Fri	Sat	Sun
Week 1	A	A	B	B	A	A	A
Week 2	A	A	B	B	B	B	B

A = Parent AB = Parent BEach cell is one overnight. The pattern repeats every two weeks.

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Which ages the 2-2-5-5 schedule suits

Children starting school who need the same two weekdays with each parent every week, while still getting a long weekend block with each.

Infants (0 to 18 months)●○○
Toddlers (18 months to 3)●●○
Preschool (3 to 5)●●●
School age (6 to 12)●●●
Teens (13+)●●○

Pros and cons of 2-2-5-5

Works well

The same two weekdays belong to the same parent every week
Only four exchanges per fortnight
Alternating five-night blocks give each parent a real weekend

Watch out for

Five nights apart is long for children under about four
The five-night block always includes the weekend, so midweek activities need coordinating

What your parenting plan should say

Describe the full cycle in days and times, not as a percentage. Name the parent who starts and the date the cycle begins, state where exchanges happen, and say that the holiday schedule overrides this one. Sample wording:

Parent A shall have the children every Monday and Tuesday overnight. Parent B shall have the children every Wednesday and Thursday overnight. The parents shall alternate the period from Friday after school to Monday morning, so that each parent has the children for five consecutive nights every other week.

Adapt the day names and times to your family. This is sample wording, not legal advice for your case.

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2-2-5-5 schedule: questions parents ask

What is the difference between 2-2-5-5 and 5-2-2-5?

They are the same rotation viewed from a different starting day. Both give each parent two fixed weekdays and alternate the weekend. 2-2-5-5 starts the cycle on the two-night blocks; 5-2-2-5 starts on a five-night block.

Is 2-2-5-5 good for toddlers?

Usually not under about three. The five-night gap is the issue. Most families start on 2-2-3 and move to 2-2-5-5 around school age.

How many overnights does each parent get?

Seven per fortnight each, so a true 50/50.

How are exchanges handled?

Most families exchange at school on Wednesday and Friday mornings, with a Monday morning exchange after the weekend. That means no face-to-face handovers at all in a school week.

What should the parenting plan say?

Name the fixed weekdays for each parent, state that weekends alternate from a named start date, define the weekend as Friday after school to Monday morning, and say what happens to Monday holidays.

Other 50/50 schedules

2-2-3: Never more than two or three nights apart. The most common 50/50 schedule for toddlers and preschoolers.
5-2-2-5: Each parent keeps the same two weekdays every week and weekends alternate. The most popular 50/50 for school-age children.
3-4-4-3: Three nights, then four, then the reverse. Even time with a rotating weekend and only four exchanges a fortnight.
3-3-4-4: Fixed three-night blocks for each parent, then the four-night weekend block alternates.